Winston Lee “Win” Stebbins
Winston Lee “Win” Stebbins, of Lansing and Harbor Springs, died peacefully on April 5, 2026, in Haslett, Michigan, surrounded by family. He was 82.
Win was born on October 1, 1943, in Lansing to C. Rowland Stebbins (“Rolly”) and Virginia Elizabeth Buckles. From an early age, he developed the curiosity, adventurous spirit, and quiet competence that would define his life.
He graduated from Lansing Sexton High School in 1961 and went on to earn his degree from the University of Colorado in 1966. Some of his most cherished memories came from his college years, when he served on the National Ski Patrol at Loveland Basin. He often spoke of the thrill of skiing down Loveland Pass—11,991 feet—under a full moon. Skiing remained a lifelong passion, later leading him to serve on the Ski Patrol and as President of the Lansing Ski Club.
Growing up, Win traveled extensively throughout the United States with his father and brothers, visiting the highest point in each of the 48 contiguous states. In 1962, he completed this remarkable journey as the fifth person known to have done so—an achievement that reflected both endurance and a love of exploration.
After college, Win attended Officer Training School and served in the U.S. Army, including a year in Vietnam, attaining the rank of Lieutenant. Returning home, he applied his engineering degree to a distinguished 39-year career with the Michigan Department of Transportation. He served as a manager in Environmental Engineering, Transportation Planning, and Design, and was especially proud of his contributions to the American Association of State Highway and Transportation Officials (AASHTO).
Ever curious and adventurous, Win once managed to arrange several weeks away from work early in his MDOT career to travel through South America. His journey included water skiing on the Amazon River, relaxing on the beaches of Rio de Janeiro, and skiing in the Andes Mountains of Argentina—before meeting his youngest brother, Kenyon, and Kenyon’s future wife, Susan, on the equator in Ecuador.
An Eagle Scout, Win carried Scouting’s values throughout his life. His sense of service, practicality, and quiet leadership showed in countless ways: organizing his Okemos subdivision’s first curbside recycling program; volunteering at WKAR-TV during membership drives and chairing the TV Auction; serving on the board of the Community Circle Players and helping guide its transition from the Okemos Barn Theater to the Riverwalk Theatre. In retirement, his deep love of history led him to serve on the board of the Harbor Springs Historical Society.
Above all places, Win’s heart belonged to the family cottage at Roaring Brook, built in 1902 on the shores of Little Traverse Bay near Harbor Springs. There, he found joy in swimming off the “Big Dock,” sailing, water skiing, searching for beach glass, and listening to the waves at night. His final ritual each evening was to walk down and say “good night” to the bay—a quiet moment that captured his deep connection to the place he loved most.
Win is survived by his daughter, Allison (Jason) Weakly; his son, Adam (Natalie) Stebbins; and granddaughter, Isabelle Weakly. He is also survived by his brothers, Malcolm (Jamila Boulima) Stebbins and Kenyon (Susan Lyman) Stebbins; former wives, Laura Stebbins and Lille Foster; and numerous cousins and friends, all of whom held a special place in his heart.
Throughout his life, Win was a devoted member of Plymouth Congregational Church, singing in the choir from an early age and later serving as Deacon and Trustee. Following the church’s dissolution, he joined The People’s Church, where he found comfort in familiar friendships and community.
The family is profoundly grateful to the staff at Brookdale Meridian and Hospice of Lansing for the warmth, dignity, and loving care they provided to Win.
Win’s enthusiasm for life, family, and friendship will be celebrated at The Peoples Church in East Lansing on Friday, May 1, 2026, at 1pm, with the Reverend Dr. Shawnthea Monroe officiating. The service will be streamed live on The Peoples Church of East Lansing YouTube channel (https://youtube.com/live/szL764DNTe0). A second remembrance will take place “up north” this summer, when his ashes will be shared among his favorite places. Arrangements are by Estes-Leadley Funeral Home, Lansing.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in Win’s honor to the Capital Area District Library or the Harbor Springs Historical Society PO Box 812, Harbor Springs, MI 49740). Please indicate “In memory of Win Stebbins” on any gifts.
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Linda Sutton
April 15, 2026 at 12:23 pmWe so enjoyed several visits with “Win” when he stopped at the home on Moores River Drive to share memories and fun experiences from his own childhood.
We were sad to learn of his passing and send our sincere regrets to his family….
The Sutton Jones family
Darris Weakly
April 18, 2026 at 12:51 pmWow! I never knew all that he did! He was one in a million. No one else like him…
Lauri (Stebbins) Gordon
April 18, 2026 at 7:45 pmI recall meeting cousin Win at the big family Thanksgiving gathering at 109 N. Walnut in 1960. He was 17; I was11. He patiently taught me to play pool up on the 3rd floor! During the course of about 40 summers, Win would wander over to Dunebrook Cottage on random evenings, just in time for dessert! Whatever the size of our crowd, we assumed he might show up.
In 2009, my sister Sharon bought her little farm in Howell. She began hosting family & friends for Thanksgiving dinners. Win came every year, then came to my home in Brighton when I started hosting in 2015. He was always the life of the party. I will miss his roaring laughs and big bear hugs.
Salvatore (Sam) Castronovo
April 19, 2026 at 6:42 pmWin was a very good friend. We worked together at MDOT. I am so glad that I took the time to visit Win last summer. His extensive travels and those of a mutual friend, Ray Ziarno, encouraged my wife and I to take part in extensive independent international travel to such places as Thailand and Japan. I will miss our discussions….
Brian Dollman-Jersey
April 26, 2026 at 5:39 amWin and I worked together in Design Division at MDOT for several years, I as a Surveyor, he as an Engineer. We shared the same birthday, October 1st, though 10 years apart. For several years after retirement I could always count on a call from Win to wish me a happy birthday and one year he even presented me with a ball cap that he obtained while visiting Greenwich, England at a shop located on the Prime Meridian (0° longitude) as he knew it would be of interest to me, being a surveyor…the hat is still displayed with my antique surveying memorabilia. That just illustrates how thoughtful a guy Win was. Rest in Peace old friend.
William Hubert Bello
April 26, 2026 at 8:40 pmWin was such a beautiful soul and a true servant of God. He would always call and greet my mom and I with that boisterous and joyful voice “Hello! Will and Sue! This is your Cousin Win from Michigan!!” We loved it. He had such a warm and uplifting nature to him, and I cherish our fascinating and passionate conversations about family genealogy, both Buckles and Stebbins. Win and my mom had such a close relationship ever since they were just a few years old playing at the cottage, and I knew the first person to call when my mom passed away in December was Win. I loved Win and nothing gives me more comfort than knowing that my mom, Elisabeth (Sue) Buckles Bello, and his precious mother, Virginia Elizabeth Buckles Stebbins, were the first to welcome him home. My life is exponentially better for knowing Win.
Cousin Will (and Sue) Bello from Wilmington, NC
Ellen Brooks Ernisse
April 28, 2026 at 10:06 pmI was able to find pictures of Win from a long time ago at University of Colorado where we knew each other.
Win took me skiing for my first time (and many more times after that) with mutual Michigan friends, Kathy Van Cleave Wilson and Dick Boundy. At that time, we were all living in the new Kittredge Dormitories in 1965-66. Win and I shared the same Birthday, October 1, and I am two years younger. Win introduced me to my future husband, David Ernisse. They were in the
Ski Club and would drive up to ski together, since Win had his car. We parted ways when he graduated from CU in 1966 and didn’t reconnect until he heard that we were building a sailboat, SV PEACE AND ALOHA, to sail around the world. He came to see us and our boat in Port Stanley, Ontario, in 1999. He happened to arrive the day we were having the sails put on.
In recent years, we have been in touch by email, Christmas cards and Birthday cards. He shared lots of history of his Dad’s trip to Hawaii many years ago and many other wonderful experiences from his life and with his family, his dad and two brothers, Malcom and Ken. He also brought me in touch with Ken, whom I had met briefly at CU many years ago. He also remembered David’s birthday. I also received a nice email from Win when David passed away on April 8, 2024. Can imagine them up there talking about skiing, CU, boats, and the engineering dept at CU: David was an Electrical Engineer and Win was a civil engineer!
I know that many people will miss Win terribly, especially his family. I send lots of LOVE and PEACE to all of you at this difficult time. God Bless you all! Thanks for all the wonderful memories, Win! Aloha and A Hui Hou, Win!
Ellen Ernisse in Lahaina, Maui, Hawaii.
Brent and Tina West
April 30, 2026 at 11:37 pmThe West family will miss Win greatly. For us, he epitomized summer in Harbor Springs. We loved that he invariably stopped by our cottage on his daily walks to and from the Roaring Brook beach. It was a bit of a running joke that he also stopped by in the evening – right around dessert time. Win certainly had an interest in cherry pie, but he also was interested in the whereabouts and activities of our family members.
I’m old enough to remember Win water-skiing off the Roaring Brook pier and crewing on the Shanghai Rooster on a Thursday night race. We also took several jaunts on the Stebbins bow rider, including at least once on the Fourth of July to watch the fireworks. For years we played with our “kids” (now in there thirties and forties) in front of our cottage.
Win will be missed. Harbor Springs and Roaring Brook will never be the same.
Tina and I and the four generations of our family extend our sincere sympathy to Allison, Adam, and the entire Stebbins family.
Sincerely,
Brent West