Stephen Henry Rall
Steve passed away on September 17, 2024, at the age of 81. With grace and dignity, he bravely faced an aggressive cancer that caught him and his family by surprise in August of 2024. From humble beginnings, born in 1942 in Ohio on a farm without plumbing, he made his way forward in life, earning a degree from Notre Dame, a master’s from Aquinas College, and built a meaningful career in teaching and social justice. He touched many peoples’ lives along the way and was equally touched through his work and extensive travels.
He is survived by his beloved life partner of 57 years, Carol, and three adult children, Christopher (Kristina), Jeremy, (Jennifer), and Katy, whom they raised together in Lansing, Michigan, and who will forever be grateful for his profoundly positive influence, love and guidance.
Funeral services will be private. The family is so very grateful for all those who visited, wrote, called, and kept him in their thoughts and prayers. A memorial may be held at a later date. Online condolences may be left for his family at www.EstesLeadley.com.
Mary Anne Perrone
September 18, 2024 at 10:15 pmMy deep condolences to Carol and the family in this tender time of loss. I mourn with you and share in your gratitude for Steve and the life that he led. He was my teacher in high school, and a wonderful one at a very formative time in my life. Later our paths crossed several times over the years (decades) in social justice circles. It was always a joy to see him and to catch up on each other’s lives.
You will miss him so much. May his memory always be a blessing for you.
Peace and love to you.
Susie and Simon Veness
September 19, 2024 at 12:05 pmCarol, we are with you in our thoughts and in our hearts, and are so saddened by Steve’s passing. What a lovely man, and how kind! You are both so dear to Kathy and Gene, and we know they are welcoming him into this next life. Thank you for being with us during our grief, and please know we are here for you now, too.
Mary Hanna
September 19, 2024 at 3:30 pmSteve was a wonderful and stalwart friend to the peace and justice community over all the many years that I knew him. He had a passion for human rights, for the dignity of the individual, for compassionate action, and for how these things were integral to living out his faith. Carol was always right there with him, if not in person then certainly in heart and spirit. All of us at Meta Peace Team and at Pax Christi Michigan will miss him dearly. Thank you so much for sharing him with us.
Joe Smith
September 19, 2024 at 9:17 pmCondolences to Steve’s family and friends. We met Steve at our first time at Immaculate Heart in 1970 when he was working with Carol to form a neighborhood communion. That has had a beneficial lifetime spiritual blessing on my deceased wife and me. I see him now walking through the power of the Holy Spirit holding the hand of Jesus as he approaches the throne of God. There is no doubt in my mind that he answered God’s call to minister to those in need. God’s faithful servant!
Martha (Bacon) Jakubiak
September 20, 2024 at 2:25 pmI knew him as my high school teacher at O’Rafferty and loved him. He had an aura of love and compassion and deep faith that really resonated with me. He was a wonderful influence on my life. My deepest condolences to the family. May you keep his memory alive by telling the stories of his life.
mike drake
September 21, 2024 at 12:37 pmHave not spoken to Steve in some time. Both Sharon and I were sad at hearing about hisd passing. We had a connection Thru IHM Parish over some time
Kathy Fighter Moore
September 21, 2024 at 3:09 pmCondolences and prayers for your family. Kathy Fighter Moore
Grace Haley
September 21, 2024 at 5:50 pmI’m sorry for your loss. I am with your family in their grief and I pray for peace for all of you!
Linda Gleason Varonich
September 21, 2024 at 7:26 pmHis name was familiar as much as his beaming smile. I may have had him home room, not sure
Very special human being, for sure
Gene Mellen
September 22, 2024 at 8:45 amCarol and others,
My deep condolences on the passing of Steve. I think of you often as I stroll by your former Westside home and remember your encouragement to get involved in several civic projects. I hope to see you soon and will plan to attend a public memorial service for Steve when you decide to hold one.
Turney Gratz
September 22, 2024 at 12:14 pmSteve was a guiding light and inspiration for all who knew him.
Bruce & Anne Burke
September 22, 2024 at 3:22 pmCarol, so sorry to hear about Steve. Anne remembers him as a wonderful teacher at O’Rafferty and we both enjoyed the times we spent with him at work gatherings and reunions. We send our heartfelt sympathies to you and all your family
Steve Wilcox
September 22, 2024 at 3:35 pmSteve was a major influence in my life. He was the catechism when I went through the RCIA to join the Catholic church as an adult. Steve was always so calm and confident in his faith, and his obvious love for God and his caring for other people was so wonderful. When he left IHM Parish we lost touch, but every time our paths crossed after that he remembered me. I’ll always remember his kind spirit.
Mary Pazitka
September 22, 2024 at 4:00 pmSo very sorry for your loss of a wonderful friend and neighbor. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.May God comfort you in this time and give you strength to know that Steve was welcomed home with open arms.
Ed Viera
September 22, 2024 at 8:14 pmCarol, I was saddened to hear about the passing of Steve. Both you and he are highly respected in the ORafferty community. I always enjoyed his commitment to both the religious but also social responsibility of students. His quietness, intellect and sense of humor were
important in the development of students and staff. A life well lived.
RJ-HESSE
September 22, 2024 at 11:23 pmVERY SORRY
Al Weilbaecher
September 24, 2024 at 9:46 pmSteve was one of the first people with whom I worked in ministry at IHM when I first came to Lansing in 1976. His deep faith, welcoming presence, & supportive encouragement was a wonderful inspiration that I have always treasured. Be assured of my prayers for Steve, as well as for you and your whole family, Carol!
Sister Gemma Legel
September 25, 2024 at 4:32 pmHow I / we miss Steve. In my every encounter with him whether it was in person, on zoom, or on the phone, Steve was always cheerful, patient, kind, thoughtful, and never lost his sense of humor. He put others’ needs before his own. He never complained. Well read, we had many a deep conversation on many topics. Steve is greatly missed and will never be forgotten.
Celeste Mongeau Crouch
September 26, 2024 at 2:24 pmMy deep condolances to you Carol and your entire family. I taught with Steve at O’rafferty and one year at Lansing Catholic Central. Despite the many years that have passed since those years. it is a joy to think about Steve and what a pleasure it was to work with him. His warmth and friendliness was a staple of his character. In conversation he would give the speaker his utmost attention, listening attentively and asking questions, always smiling. Having just a short chat with Steve, at school served as a moment of calm, a soothing break from the helter skelter stress of those hectic school days. I can just imagine all of the lucky students in Steve’s classes over the years, perhaps thousands, who benefited from his calming presence and genuine interest in them. What a beautiful person he was and how fortunate I was to have known him. . May he rest in peace.
Kathleen Herrick
September 30, 2024 at 6:37 pmDear Carol, I wish I were in Michigan to be with you during this sad time. You and Steve will always be thought of as a joyful and loving couple, so close and in sync with each other. I am thankful that I could talk with Steve by phone in his final days and I’ll never forget his kindness, wisdom, and his calm acceptance of the transition he was about to make. He spoke with great love of you, Christopher, Jeremy, and Katy and how helpful it was to receive support from each of you. John and I dearly valued his friendship and were always impressed with his intellect, insight, compassion, and the valuable contributions he made in our liturgy group. Because of his work for peace, justice and the environment- our world is better because he was here. Sending prayers and love to you and the whole family.