Ruth Elizabeth Allen

Ruth Elizabeth Allen joined her loved ones in Heaven on February 27, 2019.  Ruth passed while receiving Hospice care at Safe Haven Assisted Living in Okemos.  Ruth was born on June 22, 1933, in the home of her parents, Gardner and Mildred Amelia (Wilbur) Crawford.  She met the love of her life, Ronald Duane Allen, in music class at Michigan State and they were married June 19, 1954.  Her beloved husband, Ron, preceded her in death in 1998.

Ruth was known by many for her sweet treats from her kitchen.  Many a family wedding was brightened by Auntie Ruth’s chocolate sheet cake and holidays were not the same without her caramel corn and fudge.  She had a beautiful soprano voice and played the clarinet in the Michigan State Concert Band.  She completed her education at Michigan State and went on to teach elementary school music in Holt in their early married life.  She was a supportive member of the audience throughout her husband, Ron’s, 37 years as Holt High School Choir Director.  Mrs. Allen was always in the front row, always encouraging smiles from nervous students on the stage, and frequently holding out her hand to retrieve gum being chewed at the wrong time.  Ruth was a longtime member of First Presbyterian Church of Holt and sang for many years in the church choir.  She was a volunteer with Hospice and a member of the American Business Women’s Association, after becoming a Realtor in the Holt area.  Above all, Ruth loved her family.

Ruth was also preceded in death by her parents, her wonderful brothers, Wilbur and Robert Crawford, her treasured sister, Anne (Crawford) Harmon, her dear son, Mark Douglas Allen and her precious grandson, Jacob Wayne Allen.  Ruth was welcomed home by many beloved family members.

Ruth is survived by four of her five children, daughter Kathy Ball (Mike), son Mike Allen (Terrie), son Tim Allen, son Chris (Genny) Allen and her dear brother, James Arthur Crawford.   She leaves behind much loved grandchildren, Jennifer (Brad), Jon (Jessey), Jeremy, Faith (Uri), Doug, Matt (Morgan), Ben, Travis, Daniel (Ryan), Caleb and David as well as very special great-grandchildren, Abigail, Alex, Elliott, Lincoln, Maizey, Thomas, Titus and Thaddeus.

A celebration of Ruth’s life is being planned for friends and family on Saturday, June 22 (Ruth’s birthday).  Details will be announced at a later date.   In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made in Ruth’s name to Hospice of Lansing (Memorial Donations).

The family would especially like to express its gratitude to the staff of Safe Haven Assisted Living, Director Tamesha Porter.  They created a loving and welcoming home for our mother, while providing her with the special care that she needed. The family also wishes to express its sincerest appreciation to Diane of Care Team (Hospice) for her loving care of our mother.  God Bless you all.

Arrangements are by the Estes-Leadley Greater Lansing Chapel.

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Sue Brock Randall
March 1, 2019 at 5:25 pm

Mrs. Allen was all that and more! She was a listening ear and a shoulder to cry on. A mother to all of Mr. Allen’s choir students.

Her love of music and the patience she demonstrated with the Holt First Presbyterian children’s choir right up through high school, has influenced how I’ve shared my musical gifts with others.

40 years post high school graduation, I still hold dear the Prayer of Serenity she shared with me and the many precious memories of time spent with Mrs. Allen. She will always be loved, because she gave love unconditionally.

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Kathy Ball
March 3, 2019 at 9:48 pm

Thank you so very much, Sue. Seeing you at Mark’s funeral was such a comfort…and your kind words about mom mean the world to me. I was going through photos the other day and actually ran across one of you with my mom and your sweet Heather…I would be happy to send to you if you like….thank you for helping us at such a difficult time by reminding us that our parents made a difference!

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Pam Weight (Leland)
March 1, 2019 at 6:25 pm

I am so sorry. What a great loss for your family. All the Allen’s were a very big part of my life and I will never forget your parents and your brother. Some of my greatest memories are of your parents. I am blessed to have known them. I could always rely on Mrs. Allen smiling in the front row. I remember her heming altering costumes for Ram Singers and the Musicals. My love of music started with Mr and Mrs Allen and still is. Rest in peace.

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Keith & Jean Harrison
March 1, 2019 at 9:59 pm

Chris and Genny: Please accept out condolences to you and all your family.

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Pam Rouse
March 2, 2019 at 7:32 am

Your parents were wonderful people. You were surely blessed to have them for parents. God Bless you all

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Kathy Ball
March 3, 2019 at 9:51 pm

Thank you so so much, Pam. Heartbreaking as this time in our lives is, the pain us somehow lessened by the loving support offered by former students and friends such as you who remind us that our parents made a difference!

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Susan (Decker) Anzicek
March 2, 2019 at 9:16 am

I remember both your parents fondly. Your moms presence showed so much of her love and support of your Dad. Based on your memories, I’m glad I was on stage instead of getting my gum confiscated! Much love and hugs to the family.

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Kathy Ball
March 5, 2019 at 10:15 am

Thank you Sue…..I can still see you in high school sitting on the moon made of plywood my dad built….memories of my parents are so intertwined with the choir that I can hardly separate them and wouldn’t if I could. Thank you for your kind words.

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Faithie Busy Butt
March 2, 2019 at 11:04 am

Always had baggies of m&m’s in her purse for us during Grandpa’s musicals.

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Kathy Ball
March 5, 2019 at 10:16 am

Oh Deester,

Love you so much…..

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Mary Reynold
March 2, 2019 at 9:48 pm

Thinking of you at this time.

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Kathy Ball
March 5, 2019 at 10:17 am

Oh Deester,

Love you so much…..And don’t forget those cool chunky earrings…..

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Pam Wright (Leland)
March 5, 2019 at 8:28 pm

I am so sorry. What a great loss for your family. All the Allen’s were a very big part of my life and I will never forget your parents and your brother. Some of my greatest memories are of your parents. I am blessed to have known them. I could always rely on Mrs. Allen smiling in the front row. I remember her heming and altering costumes for Ram Singers and the Musicals. My love of music started with Mr and Mrs Allen and still is. Rest in peace

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