Rhonda Kaye Murray
Age 58, of Orleans, MI, passed away unexpectedly on October 20, 2024. Her generosity and spirit were unmatched. She was known to many as a kind and joyful soul with a heart of gold, leaving a lasting mark on all who knew her.
Born on November 3, 1965, in Albany, Georgia, Rhonda was a curious and adventurous child, always trying to keep up with her brother Mark, and her sisters, Gee and Michelle. She spent many happy days exploring the lakes and forests of Oscoda, Michigan, before moving to Lansing, where she grew up on Leon and Lafayette Avenues. Rhonda loved her family fiercely and was the one who made every gathering more fun and memorable. She graduated from Eastern High School and took classes at Lansing Community College. After many years of living in Lansing, she moved to her family’s lake house on Long Lake in Orleans, MI.
Rhonda had a deep love for music and old movies, enjoying evenings on the boat with family and friends on Long Lake. Her musical tastes ranged from the classics like Judy Garland to modern icons like Beyoncé. She was deeply sentimental, revisiting childhood homes and places she treasured. Her passion for history, family stories, and fascination with the Royal Family reflected her desire to continue to learn about the past and the present. Whether she was enjoying a view of the lake from the porch with friends, curled up with a good movie with her fur babies, Harlow and Grayson, or cooking a favorite family recipe for someone she loved, her genuine love for life and the people around her shone through in all she did.
Rhonda was preceded in death by her parents, Ronald Eugene Murray and Sandra Kaye Murray, sister Michelle Thompson, and beloved brother-in-law Ronald Palk. She is survived by her brother, Mark Murray (Jody), sister Gee Palk, nieces Amanda Lick (David Brunger), Mistie Lardie, Laurel Palk (Ryan Perez), and nephews Devon Palk (Candice), Josh Murray (Nicca), Chad Murray (Caryn) along with numerous grand nieces, nephews, dear friends, and her beloved pets Harlow and Grayson (who are being cared for by family).
Professionally, Rhonda worked as a Phlebotomist at Corewell Health, where she was known not only for her strong work ethic but for her compassion and dedication. Her ability to brighten even the most routine moments made her beloved by colleagues and patients alike. Rhonda took pride in helping Corewell Health’s Belding satellite office achieve its first-ever 100% patient satisfaction rating—an accomplishment that reflected her dedication to exceptional care.
Family and friends were always at the heart of Rhonda’s world. She was a beloved aunt, sister, a devoted daughter, and a cherished friend. Her family were the anchors of her life, and she treated her closest friends as if they were family. Her home was always a place of warmth, her table welcoming, and her advice sincere. If you knew Rhonda, you were loved by her. With a special gift for making friends out of strangers, her laughter, jokes, and lighthearted demeanor filled every room, spreading joy wherever she went. Her presence was a source of comfort, encouragement, wisdom, and sometimes, mischievous humor.
Rhonda’s gentle spirit, generosity, and unwavering loyalty will be celebrated and remembered. Her life was a testament to the power of human connection, the joy of shared moments, and the beauty of a heart that never closed itself off to others. She would want each of us to take the time to call our loved ones, connect, express our love, and plan the next gathering. Let her life serve as a reminder to cherish the people we care about—today and always.
A visitation to celebrate Rhonda’s life will be held on Saturday, November 2, 2024, from 11:00 a.m. – 1:00 p.m. with a time of sharing at 12:30 p.m., at the Estes-Leadley Greater Lansing Chapel, 325 W. Washtenaw St., Lansing, MI, concluding with a burial service at Orleans Cemetery, Orleans, MI, at 3:00 p.m.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to her veterinarian, which will be placed in an angel fund to help those who need assistance in paying for their vet care. This was an organization that was very close to her heart. Please send it to Prairie Creek Vet Services, 6899 Belding Rd., Belding, MI 48809. Please include the Rhonda Murray angel fund in the note.
Affectionately known as Rhoda, Rhodeege, Rhondie, and Rhodan, Rhonda Kaye Murray will be remembered as a woman of rare and remarkable warmth—a devoted aunt, friend, sister, and daughter whose kindness knew no bounds. She leaves behind a legacy of love, laughter, and a life well-lived.
May she rest in peace, her memory a comfort to all who knew her.
Michelle Rodriguez
October 23, 2024 at 6:33 pmSuch great memories I have of us at Long Lake. We were born on the very same day but you were always considered my older “seester” by 6 hrs. We’ve lost touch over the years but I have thought of you often. I will always remember staying with you and Pam all night long after your sweet Momma passed. Fly high angel .. may you find peace.
Mary Szumski
October 25, 2024 at 5:49 pmOh how sad!! Ronda was our wonderful neighbor at Long Lake and her bright personality and hugs were remarkable. We left the lake but had glowing thoughts of Ronda.
John and Mary Szumski
Paul James Ripley
October 25, 2024 at 7:24 pmI’m sorry to hear this Ronda was always a good friend to me when we were in school . her mother I love as if she was my own she will be missed by many friends an family I’m sure . Rhonda always had a heart of gold and I am honored to have called her friend. Prayers for her family.
Kaitlyn
October 26, 2024 at 3:09 amThe amount of love for you in this world is immeasurable. Thank you for always being such an amazing human.
Corey Ingvartsen
October 26, 2024 at 10:42 amMy Dear Rhonda,
You made some of the hardest days at work some of the best days. I can’t thank you enough for standing behind me in moving forward pushing me to go get that nursing degree, it’s a struggle some days but I will forever be grateful to you always. When I left Corewell we parted our own ways but I know deep down we still were friends,
Forever Thankful and Grateful I met you
RIP My lady
Love, Corey
Lynn
October 26, 2024 at 11:54 amI got to know Rhonda throughout my Jr high and highschool years. She had a great outgoing personality that attracted lots of others to become her friend. In life I just knew she would succeed wherever she was at. Unfortunately I didn’t get to catch up with her outside our school days, like many others life gets so busy you don’t realize how important it’d have been to take the time to step away from the daily hustle. I’m so distraught over how many have passed away at an early life that we’d known. Give big hugs please to all that have left us. Sincere thoughts and prayers to her family and all her other friends at this time.. twma R.i.H
MJ
October 26, 2024 at 5:24 pmStill waiting for you to come back to work and make us laugh… Rowdy Rhond-y Piper. Dolor abiit, mi amice!!! I know you are at peace and now one with the universe, my friend.
You will be greatly missed…
Mike & Marilyn Harp
October 27, 2024 at 5:48 pmSorry to hear about Rhonda passing away. Your family was good neighbors at the lake We will miss her. Can’t make the funeral we will be out of town. Hope to see some family members at the cottage. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
K.O.
October 28, 2024 at 6:50 amI haven’t seen you in over 30 years, Rhonda Kaye Murray —aka (Adnohr Yarrum).
And although so very much has changed, it’s clear to me after reading this beautifully written tribute that YOU hadn’t changed……at least not the most genuine and beautiful aspects of your character and personality…..they didn’t change…..other than to perhaps deepen? it shows in all the heartfelt remarks left by those whose lives you touched.
Someone I’m friends with posted one of your last posts on Facebook as a memorial—it showed an inviting scene…..a toasty view in front of a wood stove (with the lake in the background visible out the window) your pup laying close to the fire near your feet ……you said that had always been your dream. That exact scenario.
That was around 3 months ago or so. I hope you were able to enjoy it every single morning Rhonda. You were such a great mom to all of your animals (and to everyone you ever met who needed one).
Everyone who met you, loved you. Including me. And in over 30+ years I have still not met a person on my path with a more infectious laugh and sense of humor….you saved my life back in the day with that laughter. You really, really did.
Thank you for being my friend here. I’m sure we’ll meet again on the other side, and when we do you’ll already know where to get the best biscuits & gravy…I just know it <3
Shirley Austin
October 28, 2024 at 10:31 pmRhonda my friend, you were a great person to work with at the Market. Your love of life definitely shined through your entire being. We made plans to watch the sunrise together just 3 weeks ago. Now we will have to watch from opposite sides of the heavens. Rest in peace until we meet up again.
Linda Hagerman
October 28, 2024 at 10:39 pmI met Rhonda when I worked at El Aztecs a million years ago. Making friends of strangers really rings true for me! We embarked on a road trip north one snowy New Years Eve with no specific goal in mind. We ended up at a Cadillac local bar in the middle of no where and ended up having one of my favorite NYE celebrations. All the friends we made that night were because of her infectious, authentic nature. Rest in peace Rodan. She’s gone too soon
Marily Pamela keen
October 28, 2024 at 11:59 pmMy sweet friend. Wish we could have got together just one more time. I hold you dear in my heart and will always miss and love you. You had the heart of gold and loved by many
Ruth Grant
October 31, 2024 at 2:19 pmMy heart goes out to the family of this beautiful soul. Rhonda was a childhood friend of my younger sister and was at our house often from grade school thru Otto. Her devotion to family, friends and co-workers was huge. I will always remember those beautiful eyes that sparkled so bright especially when she laughed. Fly with the angels, Rhonda, and peace be with you.