Mary Volakakis

Mary VolakakisJanuary 25, 1934 – May 17, 2019

A long-time resident of East Lansing, Mary was born more than eighty years ago in Jackson, Michigan, to Ella and Alexander Volakakis.  As she grew up, she was never to forget that she was Greek.  It became a treasured part of her American identity.

Mary entered the working world following graduation from high school.  Several years later, in 1959, she began her long career with the State of Michigan.  As a young working woman, she also gave some thought to what would really be important in her life, and she realized that earning a bachelor’s degree was her dream.

Determined to make this a reality, Mary enrolled in Lansing Community College, where she got high marks and was awarded and associate’s degree cum laude.  She followed this success by transferring to Michigan State University, and, in 1981, she achieved her goal, receiving her Bachelor of Arts in Philosophy.  Going to college was a decision she never regretted.

Over the years, Mary traveled the world, flying to England, Spain, France, China, Brazil, Austria, Italy.  She found her trips to Greece and the Greek Isles especially memorable, reflecting a natural interest in her Greek heritage.

The theater held a special fascination for Mary.  She participated behind the scenes in local productions as an assistant director.  Among other projects, she worked on props and in writing reviews for the community theater paper.  She particularly enjoyed reviewing the children’s plays.

Along with the theater, Mary appreciated opera.  She devoted many a Saturday afternoon listening to opera on the radio, and she also attended productions at the Wharton Center.  Carmen was a favorite.

Some may not know this, but Mary belonged to a writing group.  And much of her writing captured her warmth, her caring, her love of life and her wonderful sense of humor.  None of the real joys or ironies of life escaped Mary’s delicate turn of phrase.

She had a circle of loyal friends who appreciated her talents and abilities.  with her innate kindness as well as through her writing and her other interests, Mary created a genuine sense of welcome for all who were privileged to know her.

Mary was preceded in death by her older brothers, George and Nicholas, and her older sister, Joann.  She will be remembered by her many friends.

The funeral service will be held at 10:00 a.m. Wednesday, May 22, 2019, at Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church, 1701 E. Saginaw St., Lansing, with interment to follow in East Lawn Memory Gardens.  Visitation will be from 2:00 – 4:00 and 6:00 – 8:00 p.m. Tuesday, at the Estes-Leadley Greater Lansing Chapel, with a Trisagion Service at 7:30 p.m. Tuesday.  Memorial contributions may be made to Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church in memory of Mary Volakakis.

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Linda Melaragni
May 20, 2019 at 3:36 pm

Mary was a dear friend of many years. We liked sharing views on the theater and politics. The last couple of years were difficult as her disease progressed. We can take some comfort in knowing she is at peace.

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Brenda Ruddy
May 20, 2019 at 6:24 pm

Mary will be greatly missed. We loved her amazing sense of humor.

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gloria sheldon
May 21, 2019 at 9:48 am

I worked with Mary at the Department of Corrections. She was a joy to work with.

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Deb NegriJackson
May 21, 2019 at 10:49 am

I was so sorry to see this today. Mary and I worked together at the Dept. of Corrections for a couple of years in the 80’s. She was a brilliant woman with very interesting stories to share! She was the keeper of the DOC Library and that was her domain! She was always smiling and happy. I will always remember her “tube socks” which were always around her ankles! She had her own sense of style! She will be missed by many people and I am one of them. R.I.P. Mary!

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Donna Heiner
May 21, 2019 at 3:08 pm

I knew Mary from the HELO Book Club. She was one who always read the entire book, and had lots to say. I loved listening to the stories about her travel adventures. I haven’t seen her for many years, but always think of her when I use “her” bathroom stall in the Riverwalk Theater. I think it’s the first one on the right. Look for her name on the door, and remember her. Given her sense of humor, I believe she would appreciate the thought.

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Mary Brown
May 21, 2019 at 5:25 pm

Mary was a treasure to all of us who have been blessed to know her. I will miss her wonderful sense of humor, sharp, perceptive mind, great stories, and generous, caring heart. She was a vital part of parish life at Holy Trinity for so many years and will always be fondly remembered by her church family. May she rest in a place of brightness and refreshment where all sickness, sighing and sorrow have fled away. May God comfort all who will miss her so much.

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Gordon Clark
May 21, 2019 at 8:41 pm

I worked for Mary on my very first foray into community theatre in 2001 and had a couple of further opportunities to experience her wit, direction, kindness and class. My heartfelt condolences go out to all family and friends of this special person.

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Gina Bria Vescovi
May 21, 2019 at 9:05 pm

Mary Volakakis had a brilliant mind married with a deep heart. Had she been born in differing times and settings, she would have been recognized for the wit, intelligence, diplomacy, and moral courage of the great court women. Opera resonated with her for a reason, as it was her true place. Her humbleness cloaked the precision with which she read her sacred and philosophy texts. Even her renowned philosophy advisor, Dr. Wim Wilkerson, recognized the unique twining of mind and courage she had. This gift was most apparent in her laugh and her humor held such joy that no one could escape its sound. May God enjoy it now, as we long for it here. Gina Bria, New York City

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Frances Walker
May 22, 2019 at 4:11 pm

Miss Mary V. I can’t believe my last words to you were so long ago.. I missed you so very much i don’t understand what happened or what wrong just know you are truly missed and loved by the tender hands group. Your bright spirit guides me now i love you.

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Jamie Snider
May 22, 2019 at 4:42 pm

Mary was one of the most intelligent woman I have ever known and it was such a blessing to be her caregiver. We shared many meaningful conversations and we shared the same birthday. You will forever hold a special place in my heart Miss Mary! May you rest in peace beautiful.

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Melissa Boulton
May 24, 2019 at 9:08 pm

I was given the great privilege of meeting Mary when I was her caregiver. She was the kind of person who leaves an impression on your life. Such wit and humor, kindness and wisdom all wrapped up in a woman full of class and spunk. I was not the only one who loved her and enjoyed sharing in her life. Rest peacefully Mary.

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