Guilford R. Northrup

Age 71, passed away November 29, 2020. He was born August 11, 1949, in Grand Rapids, Michigan, to Richard and Edith Northrup.

A graveside service will be held in Spring 2021 at Deepdale Memorial Gardens, Lansing.

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Bill Savage
November 30, 2020 at 1:22 pm

Sad to learn of Guil’s passing. We were colleagues in Holt High School’s Social Studies Department for over 25 years. During that time, we shared many experiences as teachers and friends. He was a gifted instructor and debate coach. One of my treasured memories that typified Guil’s wry sense of humor was his response to the faculty agreement to set aside Wednesday mornings in the school library for staff development. To display his diepleasure at this development, he showed up in pajamas.

Guil, Jerry Gillett and I occasionally met up at a local watering hole to share memories and get caught up. Our last meeting was at Wharton Center last year following the Choral Union’s vocal performance. My best to his family and to those closest to him. He was a true professional and friend. God speed.

Bill

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Stacie Brisboe
December 2, 2020 at 11:14 am

Mr. Savage,
This is Stacie Brisboe. Do you have Facebook or anything? Thanks. Hope you are well.

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Carol Wood-Waters
December 2, 2020 at 3:01 pm

Haha @ pjs! He was my fav teacher, him & Mrs Withey! He always made me laugh! My condolence to his family, friends & students, too!!

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Brenda Lynch Hawley
November 30, 2020 at 3:36 pm

Guil always liked to tease me that Shakespeare didn’t really write the plays. His debate teams were always successful because he loved to argue mostly in jest. An always friendly guy, I was so sad to hear of his passing. Condolences to his family (he always talked fondly about his nieces) and close friends.

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Nancy Olivett Genco
November 30, 2020 at 7:16 pm

I grew up with Guilford and first met him in kindergarten all the way through 12th grade. He was always very kind and gentle he was a wonderful friend. When he retired often times he would walk to my mothers house and bring her flowers and spend some time talking with her. So sorry for the families loss he will be missed.

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Mary Oliveti
December 2, 2020 at 12:14 am

Nice words Nancy. Mom was always excited that Guil thought of her.

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Carol Kirkeeng Pleune
November 30, 2020 at 8:40 pm

I HATED History, but LOVED Mr. Northrup’s history class. He made me laugh every day. Sorry I accidentally threw your desk toy away… not ;-). Thanks for believing in us kids. My prayers to your family.

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Timothy Long
November 30, 2020 at 11:42 pm

Some us had Mr. Northrup in a after school class at the old Jr high. I don”t know how he put up with us. we were all pretty wild. he found something inside us and believed in us when we did not believe in our self’s. I thank you for that. you will be missed but always in my memories. prayers to your family.

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Barbara Ongstad
November 30, 2020 at 11:53 pm

I was so saddened to hear of Mr. Northrup’s passing. May the family and friends be comforted by reading these memories and knowing how much he meant to those of us they may never have met.
I actually was just quoting to some colleagues what he wrote in my high school yearbook after I had put in over 40 hours on an extra credit project, working on a Lansing mayoral campaign, which only required eight hours of volunteer time. He wrote “You are a real nut, True Blue, political hack. Keep up the good work. Stay active.” To this day I have an exceptional voting record and I thank Mr. Northrup for instilling me with the understanding of how our democracy works.

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Shanna Shaft
December 1, 2020 at 3:41 am

He was my debate coach, and economics teacher. But he was also a great listener and just a great guy. My condolences to the family. Mr. Northrup will be missed.

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Tylor Orme
December 1, 2020 at 1:12 pm

Mr. Northrup changed my life.

I met him as a freshman at Holt Jr. High interested in debate, but with no idea of what I wanted to do in life. Four years later I had captained the debate team, was a three time state champion in public speaking and had a speech and debate scholarship that payed for much of my college expenses. I continued doing forensics and debate in college, winning a national championship and majoring in economics. During college I reached out to Mr. Northrup frequently, and he always continued to support me. He was like a second father for much of my young life.

I am now a Professor of Economics, coach public speaking and debate, and I can honestly say that the entire trajectory of my life was defined by Guil Northrup. I’m sure many others have similar stories of the impact he had on their lives.

He will be truly missed.

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Jeffrey Mollitor
December 1, 2020 at 1:20 pm

My Mom and myself had Mr Nothrup for history and Government classes together. She was in night school and I was in high school. He was a great teacher and mentor to a lot of students. He will be greatly missed. My deepest condolences to his family. He changed my life in so many ways! Thanks for the memories Mr Northrup!

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Courtney Hsu-Rhee
December 1, 2020 at 3:26 pm

So sad to hear of this! I had Mr.Northrup for econ and a debate coach. So many memories of him… He had a wonderful sense of humor.

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Jessica Lawson
December 1, 2020 at 4:00 pm

I am sad to hear of this passing and sincere condolences to the family.
I was 2008 graduate in holt and he was my Econ teacher. As deaf student, that class was hardest subject for me to comprehend it. He was learning and working with me to understand better. He did what he could to help me to pass the class. I am grateful to him to doing his best as he could. Thank you Mr. Northrup. Rest In Peace.

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Sarah
December 1, 2020 at 5:21 pm

R.I.P Mr.Guil and yes I did get my deploma!

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Joe & Jenifer Hamilton
December 1, 2020 at 7:05 pm

Rest peacefully, Mr. Northrup. We carry fond memories of your genuine passion for learning and its positive impacts.

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Renee Wallace-Castilla
December 1, 2020 at 7:58 pm

Mr. Northrup was my favorite teacher. I had him for both government and economics. I would purposely start debates with him every class in the hopes he would forget to give us the quiz or test he had planned. More often than not, it worked. He made high school enjoyable. He was a rare teacher.

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Caitlin McKee
December 1, 2020 at 8:45 pm

Mr. Northrup was a kind person with a wry sense of humor. Although I didn’t realize it at the time, he helped me challenge myself as a member of the forensics team and have fun doing it. Thank you, Mr. Northrup. You will be missed.

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Mark Topp
December 1, 2020 at 11:32 pm

Rest in peace, Mr. Northrup. I enjoyed your class and debate team very much. I’m glad you asked me to join. It was way more constructive than my typical after-school activities.

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Stacie Brisboe
December 2, 2020 at 11:15 am

Wonderful Teacher. Thoughts are with his friends and family at this difficult time.

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bernie camp from wheaton's
December 2, 2020 at 12:18 pm

Great guy. Garlic twist Saturday at the frame shop. I will truly miss him.

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William Priest
December 2, 2020 at 8:08 pm

Sounds like he contributed significantly to the lives of many…..Bill Priest, Holt Alumni Class of 1961.

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Randall Emery
December 2, 2020 at 8:09 pm

My favorite teacher and coach. To this day I remember my first day in his economics class when he wrote on the board: “What is man’s best friend?” After a long pause he would answer: “My friends, it’s neither dogs nor diamonds, it is compound continual interest!” Then he proceeded to show us how if we started investing today we would be millionaires by the time we retire.
One day on our way to a debate tournament he had to stop at Biggby in East Lansing for coffee, which was a very common thing for Mr. Northrup. I was riding shotgun when he parked in a parallel meter parking spot. He turned to me and handed me a quarter. I leaned forward and went to open the door handle when he said the following: “Whoa, Whoa, Emery (always called us by our last names) just hold onto that quarter in case you see a meter maid. And even if you do, just jump out and dig through your pockets like you’re looking for change.” Then he just grinned and said: “I expect to get my quarter from you when I get back.” LOL.

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Karen Leiby
December 2, 2020 at 10:01 pm

Mr. Northrup was a great teacher and debate coach. And showed us some great (and not great) restaurants around the state.

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Amy Emery Wheet
December 3, 2020 at 2:20 am

Heartbreaking. Definutely my favorite teacher and coach. His legacy will no doubt live on through his students and debate team members. I will forever cherish memories made traveling the state in his Maxima to debate tournaments.

The man had a mind and sense of humor like none other! I will never forget the year he suggested we provide copies of our affirmative case, if requested by the opposing team, in a zip lock bag, shredded, with a roll of tape. If they really pushed back we had copies printed on 1inch × 2inch paper. ALWAYS shocked the other team. When questioned, he just grinned and after a sip of Speedway coffee said..”don’t sweat it Emery,. You have to give them a copy, but there are no rules about the format. We are solid on this.” Lifelong lessons to expect the unexpected, push the limits, and roll with the punches.

You will be missed Mr. N. RIP!

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Kate Brennan Bass
December 3, 2020 at 6:54 pm

Guil was assigned to be my mentor when I was a brand new teacher at Holt High School. He was kind, supportive, smart and witty! I cherished our friendship. He taught me how to invest my money in a Vanguard account – stating how important it is to invest now so I would have money later. My Vanguard account is still growing! He was a wonderful teacher, mentor and friend. His students were lucky to have him as a teacher. He will be missed by so many. My condolences to his family.

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Hanna McCauley
December 3, 2020 at 7:14 pm

Mr. Northrup, my favorite and best teacher, I’ve never forgotten you, in fact you’re the one teacher who I talk about regularly more than a decade after graduation. I manage a weed shop now, and in your honor I call my staff “potlickers” (I thought the play on words was funny) and then I make them listen to the story again. Thank you for existing.

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Steve Hope
December 3, 2020 at 7:55 pm

One of the best teachers I ever had and his influence guided me into education. I so appreciated his sense of humor and constant advocacy. No doubt he has positively touched the lives of hundreds and hundreds of students and that will be his legacy.

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Sarah Moss
December 4, 2020 at 2:56 pm

Reading all these beautiful tributes to my Uncle Guil just confirms what I already knew; he was such a special guy who touched the lives of so many people.

He had a very stoic personality and showed love through actions, generosity and great selflessness, rather than with words or emotion. I remember us girls (his nieces) would ask him for kisses when we were children and he’d tell us to close our eyes and then he’d stick a popsicle on our cheek instead ?

Uncle Guil used to surprise us with car trips to unknown destinations regularly. He was known to make the two hour drive from Lansing to Whitehall to pick my sisters and I up for “lunch” when my mom needed a little break. Only, we didn’t know the restaurant he was taking us to was all the way in Canada.

On a particularly memorable surprise trip I asked him for a hint about the location. His exact words have slipped from my memory but they were something along the lines of, “I’m taking you to a place where you can find anything your heart desires.” My young imagination was running wild as I started inquiring about the presence of unicorns, cartoon characters, furry animals and anything else I could dream up. He emphatically answered “yes” to all of my inquiries. We ended up at a bookstore ??

And of course, his wry sense of humor carried over into his family life as well. I’ll never forget about the time he tried to teach me to play Euchre when we were at Mackinac Island several years ago. Well, I just couldn’t catch onto the game and he reprimanded me and I stormed out of the room in tears. He made it up to me later by buying me the book, “Euchre For Dummies.” ? ?

He was very sentimental, even if he never showed. He kept every single card and note people sent him and he spent the last several months telling us story after story about all of his students and friends.

It’s impossible for me to acknowledge every special memory or express how thankful I am to have had such an amazing uncle invest in my life as intentionally as he did. He gave me the best stories ever and he was so loved and will be greatly missed.

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Amy Kilbridge
December 4, 2020 at 6:09 pm

Reading the comments of Guil’s former students, colleagues, friends and family brings back many fond memories!
Guil was one of those rare human beings who does things for others anonymously, not wanting any recognition. When a colleague at Holt High School was going through a difficult time, he had food delivered to the home, never letting on that he was the one responsible. Such acts of generosity were a regular habit for Guil.
He paid attention to people, and had a gift of remembering the details of other’s lives that most of us forget. He could engage in a conversation about anything; sports, literature, politics, or the best restaurants/bakeries/coffee shops.
His dedication to his family, friends and students was exceptional. He enriched the lives of those of us who have been fortunate enough to know him and he will be missed.

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Taylor Templin-Viele
December 4, 2020 at 9:41 pm

Mr. Northrup was one of my favorite teachers. 20 years later and I still think of him often. Looking back, I realize now that his dry sense of humor disguised a generous spirit and a razor-sharp mind. He made me laugh! He inspired in me a love of public policy and fierce interest in politics. (I even went on to earn a degree in social policy at M.S.U.) He was the only teacher I ever had who made economics make sense. Every time I make contributions to my retirement account, I hear his voice in my head saying, “Compound interest is man’s best friend.” I always looked forward to the “nutrition break” during our school day because Mr. Northrup would ask me to help him carry in the fragles (fried bagels) that he would pick up on his way in from East Lansing. Sometimes he would give me one for helping. He was gifted teacher and challenged all of us. He could be tough, but it was because he believed that you could do better. My prayers are with all of his family, friends, colleagues, and former students.

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Kayden Sinclaire
December 5, 2020 at 12:15 am

Mr. Northrup was unappreciated when I was in school. I realized a couple years after I graduated how much of an impact he had on my life and how much I would appreciate him. I didn’t get the chance to tell him that.

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Rosie Peters
December 6, 2020 at 11:59 am

Guil’s remarkable gifts were those of care and compassion and integrity, but perhaps his greatest quality was humility. The manner in which he quietly went about the business of caring for others with no thought of praise or repayment was something I admired in him through all the years I was fortunate enough to know him. Many examples of his kindnesses easily come to mind: his devotion to his family, his thoughtfulness in his consideration of friends and their needs, his interest in and dedication to his students, whose potential he recognized and cultivated, his ability to listen. I respected and admired him immensely and it was my great fortune to have been part of his life. Thank you, Guil. You were not only a gentleman but you were a gentle man as well. You are deeply missed.

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Robert Terwilliger
December 6, 2020 at 2:16 pm

Guil, you were an important influence in many peoples lives. To your students, family and humanity. You’ll be remembered and missed by many as you move on in our memories and hearts. It is with great joy and pleasure to be a brother in law and part of your family. I will miss your humor and care for all who knew you personally. God bless you Guil.

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Joan Burge
December 6, 2020 at 7:22 pm

I reflect back on when I met Guil and it was in 1964 when he became my neighbor growing up. He was the big brother of my best friend and he looked out for “us” even back then. It was a pleasure to have known him and see the remarkable man he had become. He showed a genuine interest in people. It does not surprise me to read how he effected his students lives and that he was many students favorite teacher. He had a way of impacting lives. Guil will be missed in many ways by many individuals. Fly high and know you had an influence in the lives of everyone who knew you. RIP

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Debby Bates
December 7, 2020 at 12:31 am

Reading all the beautiful tributes makes it very apparent how much Guil was loved and the impact he made in the lives of so many.
I first met Guil in the eighties through my friendship with his sister, Katie. Through the years, I adopted and considered Guil to be my brother too. I’ve always known him to be very kind and thoughtful. An influential person who continued to give selflessly over and over again.
I have been on the receiving end of that kindness and thoughtfulness many times. Also through Katie’s friendship, I was able to meet their sister Becky, sister-in-law Debbi, and Carol a childhood neighbor and friend.
Sadly, Becky died in 1997. Shortly after Becky’s passing, Guil planned a shopping trip to Detroit in her honor. He arranged the trip for Katie, Debbi, Carol, and myself. I remember feeling very honored to be included as one of the four to go. Guil Drove and when we arrived, we all gathered in a spot at the mall where Guil gave each of us a $100 bill.
He said to us: “This is a shopping spree in Becky’s honor. We all Know how much Becky loved to shop and she would not have paid bills, paid off debt, or buy anything practical with the money. She would have shopped for something she wanted. So in Becky’s honor, go shop!”
Guil had also booked four appointments; two facials and two pedicures leaving it up to us to decide who wanted which appointment.
After a full, fun day of shopping and pampering, Guil drove us to The Whitney, a fine restaurant in Detroit for coffee, dessert, and conversation.
My heart was so touched with that example of thoughtfulness and generosity from Guil. It always brings tears when I reminisce or share that story. I still have one of the things I bought that day. I display it proudly in my China cabinet and it’s something I will cherish always.
I so admire Guil for the person he was, loved his compassionate and generous heart, appreciated his greatness as a teacher as well as his wit and humor, and so respected his devotion to his family. I feel so blessed to have known him. He will be deeply missed.

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Debbi Bown
December 7, 2020 at 9:26 am

Guil, has touched so many lives because he did take the time for people. He would go out of his way to visit someone and always bring a little something for them. He loved to tell stories and his knowledge of so many subjects always amazed me, but he always took the time to listen also. When his nieces and nephews growing up showed any interest in something, the next thing you knew Guil was taken them to an art museum, flying in a glider, or golf lessons. He encouraged to them to follow their dreams. And he did that with his students also. Guil will not only be missed by his family, but our lives just got a lot emptier

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R. Huber
December 7, 2020 at 2:37 pm

Guil Northrup left an indelible mark on me. He pushed me like no teacher ever had before and believed so much in the potential of young minds. He enjoyed listening to NPR’s A Prairie Home Companion on long rides to Detroit — especially this broadcast about the world’s largest pile of burlap bags: https://www.dev.prairiehome.org/programs/19971018/

I recall Guil as someone always excited for the next big thing like seeing Aretha Franklin in concert. The Whitney was frequented by Guil — he loved the desserts there and afterwards an obligatory visit to the Detroit Institute of Arts. He elbowed me in the stomach and told me while I researched public policy in his classroom that Sir Francis Bacon had been Shakespeare all along and made a note I should mention it in Brenda Lynch-Hawley’s English Literature class. Guil always had a newspaper open to the latest current event in his teaching room or in his van — and encouraged all of us to read up on current events, too.

We joked in high school that anyone who had Guil Northrup as a teacher was going to turn out a millionaire on the stock market. Guil encouraged students to think outside the box — he was very critical of where history could have been made right, why understanding the collapse of different governments was so vital to American democracy, and why his bagels on sale during nutrition period were better for us than Rosie Peters’ doughnuts.

Guil had a competitive, playful spirit. He didn’t coddle his students. If you didn’t get it, and he thought you could do better, he would keep pushing you with determination until you were old enough to understand why he pushed you. Those of us who grew to know him better, later understood he just wanted the best for us — and always insisted on it. He took his debate team all over Michigan and the United States. He was one of my first mentors. Because of Guil, I devoted my young life to studying public policy. I echo Tylor’s words that he completely changed the trajectory of my life and I will always remember him for being a quick-witted, remarkable, generous man.

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Jessica (North) Milligan
December 7, 2020 at 4:17 pm

Like so many others here I was one of Mr. Northrup’s debaters. He was more like a parent to me than a coach, with so much patience, generosity, and guidance. I have so many wonderful memories its hard to know where to start, but I’ll share one of my favorites. He took my partner Matt and I to a competition at Harvard during our senior year. We all knew it would be our last tournament, the culmination of four years of dedication, hard work, and some ridiculous antics. We started out the tournament on a winning streak, and he bought all of our meals, telling us that when we lost we could buy our own food. It was two days before we lost, and even then he continued his purchases. It was an act of love, and I felt so special.

I’ve kept in touch with him through the years, though now I’m sorry it wasn’t more often. When he retired, he sent me a box with an old trophy and many photos of our trips through the years. I am so grateful to have had Mr. Northrup in my life, and I am forever changed by the lessons he taught me and the example he gave.

May his memory be a blessing.

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Matt Jordan
December 9, 2020 at 11:26 pm

Guil Northrup was more than just a teacher for me, he was my first mentor. I joined the debate team on nothing more than a whim; I had no idea that it would be the foundation for my life. I still vaguely remember the first after school debate session, my first tournament, the first time we broke, and the first time we placed. So many late nights at school practicing, researching, cutting and pasting quotes into briefs or disadvantages. Every other weekend – sometimes more often – we’d gather at the school before dawn and head off to some school in Michigan to get trounced. I usually rode up front with him, and often on the way home we’d have some meandering conversation about politics or life. He was endlessly patient in those conversations, rarely disagreeing with me but always probing and challenging, while still being supportive.

Northrup knew my background and my economic situation. He knew I couldn’t afford debate camp, but encouraged me to apply anyway. Later on I found out he contacted the U of M debate coach and “strongly encouraged” him to give me a scholarship to attend. I’m sure he referenced having to send his students to MSU, or some such. The man knew how to work the system.

He never suffered fools, and he would be annoyed if we weren’t living up to our potential. But his scale was not fixed: he had an uncanny knack for quickly assessing what someone was capable of, and holding them to a particular standard that fit their capabilities. I remember when he explained Affirmative Action to me: “Say you have two runners, one with perfect form and one whose form is terrible. The one with perfect form wins the race; the one with terrible form finishes a few seconds behind them. Which one do you recruit?” Oh, my poor conservative head would spin.

When my dad died a few years back, I found myself in Lansing tending to the estate. We caught up over lunch, and it was like the years had never passed. He gave me the Harvard trophy (“it will look good in your domicile”) – I think he might have pilfered it from the high school when he retired. He joked that old days of us tromping around the country were probably over in Holt, the new debate coach wouldn’t “want to give up his weekends.” It struck me then how much he had sacrificed for us: so many afternoons, late nights, weekends, all spent shepherding a bunch of teenagers to argue over Foucault or whether or not Clinton would start World War III. What an amazing man.

There’s no question that I am who I am as a direct result of his teaching and influence. He was a father figure to me, and that’s not something you can ever repay.

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Sandy Aguirre
December 19, 2020 at 7:17 pm

Guil’s sisters Becky and Katie were my friends in High School. Guil was an awesome brother and so very funny.. He always debated everything in those days from the board games we played to our decision making. Years later I attended a birthday party in his honor and I was taking his picture! I said “Guil move your glasses from your forehead down to your eyes. He laughed and said “that’s how I wear them, go ahead.” I later learned that was Guil.
I can’t begin to tell you how caring this man whom I’d know since a teenager was. Guil cared about his family more than words can say.
Memories of Guil will keep us all cherishing the time spent with him!

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John Lawson
December 19, 2020 at 8:11 pm

I was pleased to read so many wonderful comments by Guil’s former students and colleagues at Holt HS. As a retired social studies department head and economics teacher, I found the story about Guil’s “icebreaker” regarding “continual compound interest” to be a great way to start an econ class. I suppose Guil wouldn’t have called it an “icebreaker,” as that’s the term used widely in the professional development sessions which were the bane of his existence as a teacher.

My comments involve my friendship with Guil as a debate coach, although from a different district. I do remember him offering me a cup of Biggby coffee on several occasions at early morning (Saturday) tournament starts. Guil moved at his own pace, sometimes quickly, other times not so much. When our teams were debating in the quarterfinals of the State Varsity Debate Tournament in 2007, we were scheduled to pick our panel of judges at a particular time slot based on preliminary round seeding. Guil didn’t show so we had to move our panel pick back so we could track him down in the hotel dining room, where he was reading the morning paper (print edition, of course) and enjoying breakfast.

However, my most indelible memory of Guil relates to his judging philosophy or paradigm. Judges have to post a statement of likes and dislikes so that debaters can adapt to their predilections. Guil had one of the most succinct paradigms that I can remember, consisting of two phrases and one brief sentence: “Harsh stock issues.” “Running clock.” “Speed kills.” That’s all one had to know when he was the judge!
Finally, toward the end of his coaching and teaching career, Guil made a special effort to preserve one of his favorite debate events, the Detroit Free Press’ John S. Knight Debate Scholarship Contest, When the Freep cut back and abandoned a contest it had sponsored since 1947, in 2009, he went the extra mile to find a new location outside of the Detroit Metro area (Thomas Cooley Law School in Lansing), made personal donations to the scholarship and convened meetings to chart a future for the contest.

Those in the debate and forensic communities have lost a great champion of competitive speech activities in this intelligent, witty and caring man.

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V Smith
December 29, 2020 at 2:17 pm

Guil and I were colleagues at Holt High School for several years. The school and the area were new to me at the time, and Guil greatly helped with my adjustment, as I was one of a very few teachers of color in the district then. He helped me understand the community, and different aspects of what “supporting students” could mean. Through advising, talking, teasing and above all listening, he made a difference! All the above descriptors by students and colleagues are on point. Guil was indeed a remarkable educator and colleague.

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