Dorothy “Dottie” May Stark

Dottie Stark

Died May 22, 2023, in Lansing, Michigan. She was born in Rocky River, Ohio, on March 28, 1930, to Wallis Mark Fisher and Grace Deeks Fisher. Dorothy graduated from Bowling Green State University, Ohio, with a BS in Education, where she was a member of Kappa Phi Methodist Women’s Club and Delta Zeta sorority.  She taught grade school for four years in Rocky River, Ohio, and as a substitute teacher in Ann Arbor and Lansing, Michigan. Dorothy was office manager for psychologists Berkman and Berkman, and later worked for Manpower.  She served the Girl Scouts as a leader for seven years, as an Area 3 Chairman, and as a board member for nine years, culminating in her receiving the Girl Scout Thanks Badge. At the end of her service, she donated her Girl Scout pins to the Michigan History Center. Dorothy volunteered at every church she attended; Rocky River, OH, Asheboro, NC, Ann Arbor and Lansing, MI. She was very active in Lansing’s Central United Methodist Church (CUMC) and served as the United Methodist Women’s Lansing District Treasurer. For 28 years she was a devoted seamstress in the CUMC sewing group making clothing for needy children, partnering initially with a group of 12. For the last three years she helped the homeless as the lone seamstress. Gardening and discovering genealogy connections were lifelong activities, but puzzles and card games were her steady passion. She loved to play all sorts of card games, especially bridge, pinochle, and euchre, sharing joyful moments with family and friends. She taught many of us new games. After her husband Jim passed, Dottie encouraged friends to usher with her for the BoarsHead Theater. People have often mentioned how they appreciated her friendliness, organizational skills, and efforts to visit others in care facilities. For 13 years she was an enthusiastic Ambassador for Grand Haven Retirement Center. “Everybody knows Dottie” was a frequent expression from Grand Haven staff and residents.

Survivors are, daughters: Susan Brogan (Denny) and Patty Johnson (Dr. Mark); grandchildren: Jamie Brogan Vanderput (Andrew), Stacey Brogan Cooper (Joseph), Kristen Johnson Martin (Tim), Michael Johnson (Lan), Katharine Johnson and Mark Wallis Johnson; great-grandchildren: Danielle, Isaiah, Aubrey, and Caleb Vanderput; nieces and nephews: W. Mark Fisher, Barbara Johnson-Clay, Robert Johnson, Richard Johnson, Louise Johnson Crane, Alan Stark, Diana Stark Holt, Barbara Stark Vaughn.  Dorothy was preceded in death by her husband of 50 years, James W. Stark, Jr. Together they enjoyed square dancing and attended numerous Elderhostel/Road Scholar trips. She was also preceded in death by sister, Marjorie Johnson (Clyde), brother, William Fisher (Ann/Jerri), grandson, Matthew Johnson, brothers-in-law, John and wife Gerry Stark, and Captain Clyde (Marjorie) Johnson, and special friend, Roy Sims.

Memorial service will be at Central United Methodist Church on Saturday, June 24th at 2pm with visitation at 1 pm. Inurnment will be at Deepdale Memorial Gardens. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests memorial gifts be made to Dottie’s church:  Central United Methodist Church, https://lansingcentralumc.net or mailed to 215 N. Capitol Ave., Lansing, MI 48933.

Family and friends may visit the guest book at www.EstesLeadley.com.

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Bridgette Adams
May 26, 2023 at 6:39 pm

I cleaned house Dottie and just adored her. Sorry for ur loss as i know she cherished her family. See you on the other side Mrs. Dottie

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Rev. Linda Farmer-Lewis
May 30, 2023 at 11:21 am

Dottie was always simply a delight! Her warm smile, friendship and faith were a treasure. We have lost a great woman.

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Elaine Brown
June 1, 2023 at 2:13 pm

We new Dottie as members of CUMC for many years. She was very outgoing and friendly, and always looked for ways to make a contribution wherever there was a need. Dottie lived a full life.

Elaine and Murray Brown

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Deb Devlin-Angevine
June 1, 2023 at 3:50 pm

Dear Patty and Susan,
So sorry to read about your Mom. It’s so hard loosing a parent. I’m so glad I got to visit with her up north, not too long ago.
Hugs!
Deb-Devlin Angevine.

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Michelle Rakieten
June 2, 2023 at 11:06 am

Dottie was one of the first excepting residents who helped me feel welcome at Grandhaven Manor and I miss her daily notes already. She will be dearly missed as she was a friend to all and was willing to accept and welcome anyone, no question asked!

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The Barnett Family
June 5, 2023 at 11:41 am

Rest in peace, friend of many years. We will miss your smile and humorous quips.

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Mitch Stutes
June 8, 2023 at 10:11 pm

Dottie joined our Apple computer user group and quickly volunteered to take over treasurer duties. Within just a few months she had collected enough dues to put us back in the black. She did that by gently teasing members into updating their dues—always with a sweet smile.
She still had me come to her place at Grandhaven to help with her computer, clearing up questions and making backups. I will miss doing that, especially since ice cream was often a part of the visit.

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Betsy Martin
June 10, 2023 at 7:12 pm

So sorry to hear of my cousin’s passing. Dottie was always so quick witted and her smile lit up the room. She often told me of the times she babysat for me. I always looked forward to her personalized letter at Christmas and all of her updates on our family’s geneology. God has placed her with all the other angels — probably at the front of the line. I’m really going to miss you Cuz — rest in peace!

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Al Fisher
June 10, 2023 at 9:44 pm

Dottie was a wonderful cousin to my siblings and me, and it was always a delight to see her and visit with her at family reunions. Her wedding to Jim was the first wedding I ever attended, and I regarded them as a loving couple that I looked up to. She was always so sweet, kind, energetic, and radiated goodness. She was the glue that held our extended family together. I will miss her and am grateful to have known her all my life.

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Sandra Youngblood
June 11, 2023 at 10:16 am

Dottie was a distant cousin from the Deeks side of the family. I enjoyed our correspondence and although we never met in person I admired her spunk and love of family. Rest well good and faithful servant.

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Rhonda Abood
June 11, 2023 at 10:41 am

My condolences to Dottie’s family. ‘Ambassador’ Dottie was one of the first to greet my Mother Irene Bartman when she moved to Grand Haven Manor. They became fast friends, with the social activities and Pinochle drawing them together. They both had a love of travel and Irene’s last trip was with Dottie – a Road Scholars cruise of the Great Lakes. Mom/Irene was blessed to have Dottie as a friend. May your joyful memories carry you through this time of grief.

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Philip Sims
June 11, 2023 at 11:28 am

Dottie was a very special person to the Sims family, she brought great joy and companionship to our father Roy after both had lost their spouses. They spent a good amount of time traveling to wherever their hearts desired and gave each other the love and attention that everyone seeks in their lives. We have shared many unforgettable moments with Dottie and will have those memories forever. Our condolences to the family and all of her friends.
The Sims Family

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Esther Brewer
June 12, 2023 at 9:41 am

Dottie, my cousin, and Jim hosted a lovely family reunion years ago. It was a joy to get together with family we rarely see. She & Jim also drove many hours to meet us for a meal a time or two. She worked hard on the family genealogy, which is lovely to have. She loved her family & God and is now enjoying the presence of her Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ!

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JOANNA WARNER STARK
June 16, 2023 at 6:10 pm

DOTTIE WAS MY SORORITY SISTER IN DELTA ZETA , BOWLING GREEN STATE UNIVERSITY. WE BOTH GRADUATED IN 1952. SHE WAS VERY OUTGOING, KIND
AND GENTLE, A PLEASURE TO BE WITH. IT SEEMS SHE BROUGHT ALL OF THAT TO HER POST COLLEGE LIFE.

I HAD A FEW PHONE CONVERSATIONS WHEN I DISCOVERED THAT SHE WAS IN LANSING AND I WAS IN EAST LANSING. UNFORTUNATELY I DID NOT RETIRE UNTIL I WAS 86 AND OUR LIVES DID NOT CONNECT, ALTHOUGH WE EACH
SHARED A MARRIED NAME. STARK!

I AM PLEASED TO LEARN THAT SHE HAD A RICH LIFE AND HAD MANY FRIENDS
TO MOURN HER LOSS AND CELEBRATE HER LIFE.

JOANNA WARNER STARK, DELTA ZETA1950, BOWLING GREEN STATE UNIVERSITY.
930 LILAC AVENUE
EAST LANSING 48823

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John and Jean Dietrich
June 23, 2023 at 9:07 am

Dottie was a great friend and neighbor.
She was a blessing in our lives and to those around her.
She will be missed and deepest sympathy to all of the family,

Yours in Christ,
The Dietrichs

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Julia Petry
June 23, 2023 at 12:57 pm

Dottie,

Thank you for your friendship over the years. I shall miss you on the Day Tripper events which you introduced me to after my retirement and at the MARSP meetings. You were one of the most friendly, resourceful and independent persons I know.

May you Rest in Peace dear friend and May Your Memory be Eternal.

Julia Petry

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