Delores Ann “Dee” Flower
Delores “Dee” Ann (Shady) Flower of Lansing, MI age 86, our beloved wife, mother and grandmother passed away on January 1, 2024. Dee was born on June 4, 1937, in Lansing, Michigan to the late Clayton and Willo (Brugger) Shady. Dee was a graduate of Lansing Everett High School, and she married the love of her life, Rodger A. Flower on June 29th 1956. Along with raising their daughters, Dee worked as the Office Manager at Lansing Pediatric Associates for over 43 years, a job that she absolutely loved, until her retirement. She will be remembered by her family and friends, as a kind and loving person who was quick with a smile and laugh. Dee could always be counted on to host dinners, celebrations and vacations that provided countless memories that we will cherish forever. Delores was known for baking her perfect pies and wonderful family meals. She took up hobbies like skiing and golf later in life, and loved to travel and read, but mostly she enjoyed any time that included her family and friends gathered together. Dee was preceded in death by her parents and sister, Pauline Shady. She is survived by her devoted husband of 67 years, Rodger Flower, her daughters, Kathi (Cameron) Bogle, Jeanine (Mark Clayton) Flower, and Michelle (Timothy) Crook, and her four grandsons Ryan Bogle, Jacob Clayton, Zachary Crook, and Josh Crook. She is also survived by her sister, Ellen (Bruce) Thurman, and many nephews and nieces. Those who wish may make a memorial donation in memory of Dee to The City Rescue Mission of Lansing, the Greater Lansing Food Bank, or a charity of your choice. A Memorial service will be held at 3:00 p.m. on Friday, January 26, 2024, at the Estes-Leadley Greater Lansing Chapel, 325 W. Washtenaw St, Lansing, MI. The family will receive friends at the funeral home on Friday, January 26th beginning at 1:00 p.m. until the service starts at 3:00 p.m.
Amy Every (Passick)
January 2, 2024 at 11:09 pmMy dear, sweet, Aunt Dee. She will be missed.
Rest in Peace in the arms of the Lord.
Tama Allen
January 3, 2024 at 7:48 amMy heart is breaking for the Flower family. What a beautiful picture to honor Dee. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
LES SCHWARTZ
January 3, 2024 at 10:09 amI’m find it difficult finding the words to describe what a wonderful friend Dee has been to Jan and me. We can take heart in knowing she has earned and received her wings. Much peace to Rodger and family as they go through this extremely challenging time. Stay strong.
Laurie Gadaleto
January 5, 2024 at 7:39 pmUncle Rodger, Kathy, Genie, Michelle and the extended Flower family.
Please know I share in your sorrow. May your memories be blessings that bring you love, peace, comfort, strength and guidance.
Aunt Delores was truly blessed with the love of her family and their enduring care.
What a beautiful picture, looking just as I remember her.
TONI MOLANO
January 6, 2024 at 1:31 pmDee was such a kind caring person. Whenever I called or took my kids into Dr. Knickerbocker’s office she always went over and above to give caring concern & support . She even called my mother in law once to let her know that I was following exactly what Dr. Knick had told me to do. Praying for your family.
Pam Rogers Campbell
January 6, 2024 at 7:56 pmSo sorry to hear about her passing. Our hearts and prayers are with her family at this difficult time of loss and grief.
Susan and Fank Vice
January 8, 2024 at 4:22 pmIt broke my heart when I learned that Dee had passed. She was the kindest neighbor I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. Both she and Rodger have been wonderful to know. Our sincere condolences to the entire family. The neighborhood won’t be the same without her.
Jody Janson
January 9, 2024 at 11:53 amDee has been in my life as a client and a friend well over 1/2 of my life. She honestly felt more like family to me and I will miss her dearly. She was one of the only people I knew who could recommend a great restaurant and it would legitimately be a GREAT restaurant. Family events and traveling took up most of our conversation time as I saw her and Rodger religiously every 4 weeks for 36 years. Her kids and grandkids were truly her biggest joy and I know she will continue to be their biggest cheerleader and guiding Angel. Dee’s spirit will be felt for a long time to come and I hope you all can find peace in her physical absence because I know she wouldn’t want anyone to be sad on her behalf.
Ellen Thurman
January 11, 2024 at 10:54 pmWhat a beautiful sister and she loved her family so very much. I will miss having her in my life. She was always so generous to all those around her. Rest in peace my dear sister.
Norman Eastman
January 14, 2024 at 11:48 amRoger I don’t know if you will remember me but we grew up together in Millet and worked together in tool room. I am very sorry to hear of your wife’s death. Want you to know my thoughts are with you. I and my wife have been married 72 years and I can’t imagine it being.