Carolyn Mae Kamens Callen

Lansing, MI

Carolyn completed her earthly service to her Lord and others on February 19, 2019. She died peacefully, surrounded by her family.

Carolyn was a longtime dedicated member of Grace Evangelical Lutheran Church, and rejoiced in her roles as wife, mother, mother-in-law, grandmother, daughter, sister, and friend. Her deep compassion and care for others found expression through her work and commitment to many organizations and causes, including Hospice of Lansing (which she helped found), Advent House Ministries, the West Side Neighborhood Organization, the League of Women Voters, and countless election campaigns, all of which benefitted from her energy, time, and intelligence.

Born October 10, 1934 in Meriden, CT to the late Otto and Katherine Kamens, she was married to Ronald C. Callen on August 2, 1958, beginning a lifetime partnership of love and service together. They moved to Michigan in 1965, excited to raise their young family in downtown Detroit, before settling on Lansing’s West Side in 1973 where she and Ron immediately invested themselves in their new community.

Over the years, Carolyn worked in many different roles, including as office administrator for Grace Lutheran and as the inaugural office administrator for Hospice of Lansing. She retired from the Capital Area District Library.

In all facets of her life, she welcomed people with kindness and sincerity. She had a gift for making, keeping, and caring for friends, creating a countless number of lasting relationships. She will be dearly missed.

Carolyn is survived by her loving husband of 60 years, Ronald C. Callen; three sons: Bruce W. (Kristen Thompson) Callen, Lansing; Paul C. Callen (Lisa J. Freda), Washington, D.C.; and Philip L. (Laurie Schroeder) Callen, New York, N.Y.; grandchildren Abigail, Elizabeth and Emily Callen and Alice and Abraham Callen; a brother Kenneth G. (Ruth) Kamens; a sister-in-law Sue Kamens; nieces and nephews: Gary Dunn, Sandra Mortenson, Kevin Dunn, Karen Toledo, Suzanne Lien, and Lauren Stolberg.

She was preceded in death by her parents, in-laws Harold and Leona Callen, sister Barbara Dunn, brother Rev. Alan W. Kamens, and niece Alison Kamens.

The funeral service will be held 11:00 a.m. Monday, February 25, 2019, at Grace Evangelical Lutheran Church, 528 N. Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd, Lansing, MI 48915, with Pastor John Schleicher officiating. Interment will follow in Evergreen Cemetery, Lansing. Her family will receive friends 2:00-6:00 p.m. Sunday at the Estes-Leadley Greater Lansing Chapel, and also one hour prior to the service at the church on Monday. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to Grace Evangelical Lutheran Church or Advent House Ministries (www.adventhouse.com).

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Ellen (Guise) & Mike Pashenee
February 21, 2019 at 11:47 am

Carolyn, who was all Love & Light to us, will be greatly missed. She came into our lives 52 years ago when, in new friendship with mom, she linked our two families. The result was decades of shared times, of love and sorrows, and purpose, action, joys and laughter.
Carolyn brightened every room she ever occupied with the beauty of her love and light.
Our hearts go out to Ron, Bruce, Paul, Phil, Kris, Lisa, Laurie, Abby, Elizabeth, Emily, and the babies. There will always be a place at our table and a warm hug for any one of you. You are the worthy carriers of Carolyn’s light.

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Edric Guise
February 21, 2019 at 11:58 am

Our family looooves Ms. Callen and family. Condolences to Mr. Callen, the boys (a.k.a. 3/4 of our Thanksgiving football team), and the extended family. So interesting for me that the only woman in the immediate family was such a graceful leader within both her family and when needed my own family. Thank you Ms. Callen!

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Michael and Gretchen Fielek
February 21, 2019 at 11:28 pm

Ron,
So sorry for your loss. We remember how lovely Carolyn was in the few times we met her many years ago. God speed.

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Kristie Dickinson
February 22, 2019 at 10:07 am

Carolyn was very active in the Westside Neighborhood, and no one has been able to fill her shoes as far as organizing the home tour in the garden tour since she left. I know she made two of my dreams come true when she featured my house and both the home tour and the garden tour. She was tactful and organized and dedicated, and we will miss her so much.

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Peggy Vaughn-Payne
February 22, 2019 at 12:04 pm

Ron, I’m so sorry to hear about the passing of Carolyn. She was a beautiful person and I certainly know the passion that she had for the Westside Neighbohood and the amount ot time donated to making sure our neighborhood was beautiful and open for everyone to see through the home and garden tours! We will all miss her! My sincere condolences to you and your family and may your heart be lifted by all of the beautiful memories you have together.

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Ruth and ken kamens
February 22, 2019 at 1:10 pm

Carolyn you were a beautiful loving sister . You ministered to so many people you gave so much of yourself to so many people in so many ways . We miss you we love you your brother ken and his wife ruth . I love you

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Peter Meidlinger
February 22, 2019 at 7:38 pm

We share our condolences at your mom’s passing. We met Carolyn a couple of times in Missouri, and Bruce shared many warm and vivid memories of her over the years. You were fortunate to have her as a mother and grandmother. We wish the entire Callen family peace in your time of loss.

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Bonnie Gottschalk
February 22, 2019 at 9:49 pm

Mrs Callen Helped me get past my mothers death.She always wanted. Me to call whenever I needed a ride she knew what I was going thru and I will miss her she was great person and friend to my. Mom

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Alison Beck
February 23, 2019 at 4:20 pm

I will miss talking to you.You always called me sunshine and so did my dad.

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John Putnam and Toby Powel
February 23, 2019 at 10:36 pm

Ron and Family. I am sorry for your loss. I don’t need to tell you that Carolyn was an absolutely amazing spirit. I so enjoyed our time together working on the garden tours and the garage sales. We had so many wonderful talks. One of the the rembembrances I had was Carolyn telling me that she enjoyed seeing our Christmas Tree lights way past Christmas Season. Toby and I take our time in putting away the artificial tree. It is still blazing away now. She said she enjoyed seeing the lights when she was on her way home as it was like a beacon and reminded her that she was close to her own home. I was going to take down the tree this weekend, but Carolyn, the lights are still on just in case your spirit makes a visit back to the neighborhood. You will be missed.

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Connie Geissel
February 25, 2019 at 10:01 am

Caroline help to me secure my position at Grace in the 70s and has been a support to me and my family ever since. We cared for each other in our life journey. I’ll miss her smiling eyes. Her compassion and concern for others will live on through her children and her husband Ron. Unfortunately I will not make her funeral today. But send my sympathies my deepest fondness to Ron and the Kamens and Callen families.

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