Arlene Helen Atwater
Arlene Helen Atwater, compassionate to everyone she met and an advocate for all children, passed away April 18, 2020, after 22 years of being cancer free only to have it return and metastasize to her liver.
Arlene was born on May 7, 1948, in Elizabeth, New Jersey, to Genevieve Woods and Harold Atwater. She loved water so much that she was swimming in the bath tub so her mother took her to the Y.M.C.A. to bath her. She was swimming at 6 months of age and pictures appeared in every big newspaper in the U.S. as well as in foreign papers. The heading was “ATWATER IN THE WATER”.
Arlene graduated from Handy High School in Bay City and went on to Baylor University in Waco, Texas, to earn her B.A. in Social Work. She began work in Saginaw County as a Protective Services Worker & later moved to Lansing where she eventually became a Special Needs Adoption & Foster Care Worker for Ingham, Clinton and Eaton Counties. She was considered an invaluable employee and a wealth of knowledge, which combined with her unique ability to relate to all she met, was instrumental in assessing children’s needs.
Arlene was preceded in death by her brother, Ronald, niece Madonna Jammer, and her parents. She is survived by her brother Harold “Buddy” Atwater and her sister Dorothy (Vernon) Owens, along with six nieces and nephews. Also surviving is her best friend of 40 years, Linda Johnson, and her Shih Tzu Dory Rose. Friends and coworkers alike will not ever find a more compassionate, caring Christian woman whose purpose in life was to find the value in everyone. Her love of food, cooking and trying new recipes rounded out her life to provide joy for others. There will never be another Arlene. She was a born-again Christian from an early age and we will meet up with her again for eternity with our heavenly Father. She prayed for a miracle even up to two days before she passed away. But she also accepted that her total healing would occur when she was taken home to heaven.
Arlene was a member of Rivers of Life Church and recently had been attending Colonial Village Baptist Church, both located in Lansing, Michigan. She especially wanted to thank Pastors Jessie & Bridgette Brown and Pastors Randy & Bryan Morgan along with Mary Morgan (and the members of CVBC) for their support and prayers while facing her end of life during these difficult times.
Also special thanks to Dr. Kara Hoisington of Sparrow Health Systems for her compassionate care and concern for Arlene’s health and welfare.
Per Arlene’s wishes, she has been cremated and will be interred, when appropriate, in Cedarville, Illinois. A memorial service and celebration of Arlene’s generous life will take place when it is safe to do so. For those desiring, contributions can be made to Feed the Children in Oklahoma, an organization she supported her entire life. Arlene wanted everyone to know she loved them even though she was unable to make contact. She wanted you to provide comments on the Estes-Leadley website in lieu of a formal gathering at this time. She promised she would read them all.
Debra Snell
April 20, 2020 at 7:46 amArlene was a beautiful, caring woman. May she rest in peace.
Katie Jackson
April 21, 2020 at 12:41 pmBeautiful human being.
Rest in peace
Karen Wagner
April 23, 2020 at 10:15 pmMy dearest friend Arlene…You were the most compassionate woman and friend I have ever met. We did not have enough time but I am thankful for the time we had. You were there fore me when my Mom passed last year always giving with all your heart! I’m so sorry that I did not get the chance to see you during your trying times with that nasty cancer?Tears are flowing as I write this message to you. You are now pain free my friend, dancing in the Heavens with my Mom. I’m sure you and Mom have casino plans already’. Oh my friend, I will miss you dearly and miss all the fun times we shared especially game times at The Creek Promise to keep an eye on Linda. RIP my dear friend.
margie stallings
April 26, 2020 at 9:15 amDearest Arlene, the nicest most caring sweetest Lady I have ever met. Only spent brief time with and near you, however, your heart was amazing. Such an easy Lady to be around, and a sense of humor that never stopped.
Rest in Peace, Mom will get to spend more time with you. Love, Margie
Julie Clark
April 29, 2020 at 3:07 pmOur sweet, beautiful Arlene/Auntie Arnie. The world will never be the same without your kind soul here with us. We know you are happy and dancing in heaven with Jesus. We are so thankful that you and Linda opened your hearts and made us part of your family. We have so many cherished memories. Thank you for all that you have given us. You are forever my M.M.
Linda/Auntie Lulu your loss is immeasurable. There are no words. Please know that we love you.
Ron & MARILYN Wojack
May 1, 2020 at 8:14 pmOur dearest Arlene, RIP my friend – pain free! Dancing with the Angels! We first met at the Lansing Boat Club, went on to become friends – we both ended up with shih tzu’s. RON and I even got the pleasure of dog sitting for your beautiful Dory Rose. We even had more than a couple of dinners at your home! Your meals were more than just great, you were probably one of the best cooks I have Ever met!! Your Rasberry and almond cake was the best! Know that Arlene our friend will certainly be missed! Heaven gained another angel with you Arlene!
Mary Morgan
September 3, 2020 at 2:40 pmArlene and Linda brought a lot of good laughs and fun times for all of us at our church. Arlene was a good and kind person and such a pleasure to have known. Our lives have been enriched for having known her.
Issie Scott
September 8, 2020 at 5:41 pmDear Arlene, I am so glad that God led you and Linda to come to CVBC. I only wish that it had been years earlier so we could have been friends longer. You were taken from us much too soon when that dreaded cancer prevailed; but, I know that we shall meet again on heaven’s beautiful shore!
Joanne Bassar
October 7, 2020 at 11:02 amArlene was a true friend to many and was a gift to the children she cared for in her professional life. As her coworker, I learned a lot from her about the needs of children and families. As deep and serious as she was as a person, I cannot forget her sense of humor. She was a bright light in the world and will be missed.
Amy Dawson
November 6, 2020 at 4:05 pmWhat a gift Arlene was to all the lives she touched. My love and healing thoughts go out to all who loved her, especially her dear, dear friend Linda. Linda may your loving heart heal until you can someday reunite with your dear friend.
Tara Keenan
December 21, 2020 at 9:55 pmI so miss our talks about your travel linda and the pictures of the food we had some good chuckles while I cut your hair .I will see you again.
Terri Martin
September 26, 2021 at 11:16 pmArlene was a bright light to all around her, Her light shown bright like a beacon over dark water with something as simple as a warm smile and hello or impacting the lives of the children she worked hard to serve in hopes that they would prosper. Truly the heart of a servant, friend and confidant. I know she is still making a difference in the people’s lives of whom she touched today from her Heavenly Home. I hope that we can all pause and reflect on her heart, kindness and intentions and strive to keep Arlenes spirit alive. I pray that the memories shared provides comfort to all who knew and loved her!